我们从小到大，常听过的话一定是“你还年轻，没有经历过社会，很多东西你都不懂，想法太幼稚，思想不够成熟”，每次听到这种话我都有一种冲动，试图用一些例子来反驳，证明自己已经成熟。直到最近，我才突然意识到，这一切的很多逻辑都是错的。正是因为没有理解好这句话背后的逻辑，导致了我们自己、包括父母辈层出不穷的失败教育，大量三四线城市的孩子沦为学校教育的炮灰，“从小输给一线城市孩子的距离大约可绕地球一圈”，这些孩子“开心快乐”的朝着“无产阶级”的目标越走越远。
名词假设：
“无产阶级”：我这里用调侃的语气，泛指那些生活潦倒、思想固化、不思进取的人。
“成熟”：我这里形容一个人在某个领域有一些特殊的经历，有自己的思考。
“成功”：我这里形容一个人有一定的社会地位，日子过比大多数人要好。
“上升”：我这里形容学习更高纬度的知识和经验，忽略当前不懂的比较浅的知识和经验。
“下沉”：我这里形容停下来把当前不足的知识和经验完善好，再学习其他的知识和经验。
正文：
当“你还年轻”“没有经历过社会”“想法太幼稚”的话出现时？其真实的意思是什么？
真实意思是：你根本不了解我所经历的，不了解我的行业，不“成熟”，等你“成熟”了再来谈这个吧！！！
首先，这句话出现了一个很大的逻辑漏洞，没有讲成熟的定义，没有定义什么样才叫成熟，不像我上文对“成熟”有一个假设前提。因此大概率听到的人，会根据讲话人的身份来自己定义成熟的领域和含义。
其次，这是一种否定，然后是带有一种目的性的引导，试图吸引你的兴趣，让你去了解那些你不知道，但对方知道的东西。
其实，大部分这句话出现的语境里，在没有假设的情况下是隐含了一个成熟的假设前提，它的大概意思是“经历过社会的磨难、社会的艰苦、社会的残酷、社会的阴暗”叫做成熟。
那么这句话的可怕之处就呈现出来了，在讲它之前我们先更正另一个逻辑错误：
从逻辑关系上，“有过一些社会的磨难和残酷” >>(能够) “人生更成功吗”？错！！！（论证1）
这个逻辑关系是不成立的，而正确的逻辑是：“有过一些社会的磨难和残酷” >>(能够) “下次遇到社会的磨难和残酷时能更坚强的活下去”（论证2）(过于简单，不再论证)。
为什么呢？很简单，我们见过的那些家庭环境很困难的孩子更“成功”了，还是家庭环境好的更“成功”了？我们见过的有惨痛经历的人“成功”的多，还是从小没有惨痛经历的“成功”的多？
所以，想要更“成功”，就应该尽量避免和规避那些困难和苦难，而不是迎“难”而上，除非跟亲情、爱情、友情等有关的我们迫不得已要去面对，或有别样的人生追求要自己去体验，否则，还是不建议我们主动去经历磨难，因为它并不会让我们人生更“成功”！！
下面来讲一下这句话可怕的地方：
这句话经常出现在那些不谨慎的家长的口中之后会有什么结果呢？“你还年轻”“没有经历过社会”“想法太幼稚”，这些话一旦出现在孩子的耳中，因为没有给出“成熟”的定义，所以我猜测他们心里会默默做一个成熟的定义：“我要成熟，我要经历社会，我要经历一些社会的阴暗面才能更加成熟”。
那么，读书是否能让我更加成熟呢？不能！！！
那么，做一个好孩子能让我更加成熟吗？不能！！！
那么，我去接触、经历一些社会更阴暗的事情，能让我成熟嘛？可以
那么，我去接触一些社会更阴暗的人，能让我成熟嘛？肯定可以
那么，我学大人一样直接辍学打工赚钱，能让我更成熟嘛？绝对可以
以上分析完毕，那么我们再从听者的角度来分析判断这个问题。
当别人说我们“不成熟”的时候，我们应该上升还是下沉？
（5.31号待完善）
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